GOD’S RECIPE FOR CONTROLLING YOUR TONGUE". It's a great study and very needed for me, but it seems like everyone else things they need it, as well.
The scripture the book is based on is this: “Let your conversation be always full of grace, seasoned with salt so that you may know how to answer everyone,” Colossians 4:6. Learning to have gracious speech, which is well-seasoned, is difficult, yet necessary for the child of God. Striving to imitate our Savior, Jesus, we must learn to control our tongues better. Consistency of life must be followed by consistency of speech.
“Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen.” Ephesians 4:29
“Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it. Keep your mouth free of perversity; keep corrupt talk far from your lips. Proverbs 4:23-24.
The words that come from our mouth are almost always from the motives of the heart. When we are murmuring and complain, we have a critical heart. When we say mean, ugly, nasty, foul things, our heart is unholy. When we gossip and tattle, we have a careless, thoughtless heart. And when we boast and brag, we have a proud heart.
It can be summed up with this quote:
***Usually when our mouths speak out of order, it’s a sign that our hearts are out of order.***
How is your life? How is your mouth? How are your words? How is your heart?