Yesterday, my preacher brother-in-law talked about using our time wisely. The passage was one we will be using for our "scripture of the week" for our family. "Be very careful, then, how you live—not as unwise but as wise, 16 making the most of every opportunity, because the days are evil. Therefore do not be foolish, but understand what the Lord’s will is." Ephesians 5:15-17
Something else was said in Bible class yesterday about a former minister who had been buried here the day before. When he talked he would say, "Now, remember if you think I'm pointing fingers, I have three coming back at me!" Ouch. That is sometimes painfully true!
It matters how we live. It matters what we do. And, as another brother-in-law said in his message as one of our Elders, it matters what we type and post on social media, and sadly it occurred to me that I put something a little bit rude concerning a professional athlete hinting at his arrogance, but was it something that needed to be said? Was it rude? Was it sarcastic? No. Yes. Yes. :( I deleted it, but shouldn't have ever posted it. I went against my own rule of, "Never post negative." So I will strive to do better and be better and be careful with my fingers.
There's so much posted with "our little fingers" that just doesn't need to be said. Think of doctrinal issues or political sides. We have to be careful, as Christians, that we don't build a barrier by the views we hold and publicly want to share. When we get angry and defensive, we may have great thoughts about the issues - even true ones, but our anger will not and does not draw anyone to Christ. It actually may turn people away from the church - away from Jesus. And on the political side, I'm doubtful anyone has changed their minds because of rude and sarcastic, and just plain mean, memes!
Public debating isn't helpful. People block other people’s comments, holding grudges for things that have been said, hide certain people - even Christians - and sadly, even may get to where they can't even speak to one another in public. Some have said that they cannot take the conflict and they've become frustrated with what they see. Am I part of the problem or part of the solution? I used to be part of the problem. I used to like to debate. If I had been on social media years ago, I would have enjoyed the political stuff, too. Now I don't. I think it's hurtful.
Are you part of the problem or part of the solution?
I hope you will realize that as a Christian, your Facebook page/posts and Twitter "tweets", Instagram, etc., is not “personal,” it’s an arm of the church, a reflection of Jesus, and is to be an example as to the character of Christ. Be careful what you share and communicate to the world!
Is it being done with the heart and mind of Christ? Let’s humble ourselves and make sure that neither our private life nor our public life on social media are in conflict with our Father and Savior's message and our calling as one of His ambassadors.
OH, BE CAREFUL LITTLE FINGERS WHAT YOU TYPE!