After a little more than three months of having our two college kids home, our son had to go back yesterday. I got to help him move in, which made the whole process a lot more bearable for me. This closet area is really nice! He's an R.A. (Resident Assistant) this year, so his room is FREE, bigger, and has a bathroom he shares, but is in between his room and the other, so he doesn't have to go to the general dorm floor bathroom.
We quickly filled up that nice closet, making it for clothes and a mini kitchen. His bbq grill lives in his trunk, along with all of his grill utensils, so that frees up a lot of space!
The room is basically like last year's dorm room. In fact, pretty sure that he set it up almost the exact same!
Making up his bed made me feel like I was getting to do something big! I doubt it stays looking like this, though :).
His desk area was expanded a bit with some shelving.
It's not all put together yet, but will be soon. He took his really nice desk chair, so at least he'll be comfy when he sits there. He doesn't like the window open. I sure would! Maybe he will sometimes, though.
He got the TV all hooked up, even though he's really disappointed that he won't be able to watch the Olympics at college. The college cut cable. Guess the tens of thousands of dollars tuition couldn't cover that! Ha ha! (Thankfully we're not having to pay all of those tens of thousands due to scholarships and awards, but still.....cutting sports channels is crazy! Gonna be lots of unhappy college kids!
The bathroom is so big! It must be handicap assessable, which is very good to do in all private bathrooms, of course. It will be so nice to not have to go down the hall if he has to get up during the night. I wouldn't have liked that, either!
And now something interesting: Zachary had a ziplock bag full of sunglasses. I displayed them for him, commenting on how many he had. He said, "Oh yeah, if you didn't know, I collect sunglasses! I pick them up whenever I can!" Ha ha! A lot of these were free! Some I know he'll never wear (thankfully!) :)
As I hugged Z bye last night, I cried. I cried leaving, but not for long. This morning I get a little sad when I look in his room. It's straighter than it's been in many months, not just because of his stuff, but with our kitchen remodel, a lot of things were stored in his room. His bed is straight. His high school graduation t-shirt quilt is laying out on top, showing me years and years of memories. It's bittersweet. I'm proud of him and excited for him. I want him to be where he is and to be doing what he's doing. But I'm selfish, too. I miss him. It takes me a few weeks to adjust to the "new" and since the two oldest are leaving at different times, it gives special time with me and our daughter to do some things before she leaves.
God has ways of preparing us for all of these transition times. It also brings us closer to Him. This morning I'll start writing out my ladies' Bible class lesson for our new year which begins Wednesday night. I've had a long summer break from that, so it's time to dig deeper in God's Word in a different way that I did this summer. That's a good thing.
Please pray for all of the college kids as they begin this new semester. They are at such an exciting time of life, but, sadly, for so many, it's an unsure time of life. They need our prayers. They need to know people care about them.
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